Do you feel like you focus more on work and business than your connection with each other?
Do you set goals together that are difficult to stay consistent with?
Do you feel that sometimes you're growing, but not always at the same rate or in the same direction?
Do you over extend yourself to others and forget to give time to each other?
Early on we agreed to value growth as a fundamental in our relationship. We focused on growing ourselves and as a bi-product our relationship grew.
We went through the stages of a typical relationship: Boyfriend/Girlfriend for 5 years, Engaged for 1.5 years and then marriage.
We’ve been together for 8 years now and are still gaining clarity on who each other are.
We realized we each have to contribute 100% of our 50% part of the relationship.
Amanda realized she tucked way too many things under the rug. She suppressed feelings, didn't talk about let down expectations, depression cycles, unfulfilled wants and desires, and intimacy issues.
James used to keep things to himself; like financial concerns, credit card balances, work pressure, lifestyle worries and fears.
Its caused us to look at finances together, caused us to talk about pressures of providing, caused us to talk about lifestyle sacrifices and caused us to talk about expectations and standards.
We realized we had been growing, but unconsciously we were keeping so much from each other. We realized just how much we hadn’t been really giving to our relationship equally.
We started setting goals together, mapping out our vision and discussing our values and expectations as a couple. We started to understand each other on an intimate level and now have the ability to speak each others visions and truths as if they were our own.
We went from laptops open until midnight, to non-negotiable connection time and phones on airplane mode. We went from not knowing how much each other was spending $$, to knowing every dollar spent and where funds were being invested into.
We went from making solo decisions, to making decisions together for our future selves. And we went from over extending ourselves to family and friends, to setting clear boundaries for ourselves as a couple.
During these next 6 months you will start growing in the same direction with your partner, develop the boundaries you need to create a healthy relationship and develop a deeper connection together.
Women's Private Coaching Sessions with Amanda Silvas. Includes five private one-on-one sessions each one hour in length; one a month for 5 months.
Coaching Focus: Personal Development Business Development Self Love & Self Worth Productivity & Focus Setting Boundaries Goal Accountability
Men's Private Coaching Sessions with James Silvas. Includes five private one-on-one sessions each one hour in length; one a month for 5 months.
Coaching Focus: Personal Development Business Development Beliefs & Mindset Productivity & Focus Leadership Goal Accountability
Couples Coaching Sessions with James & Amanda Silvas. Includes five private one-on-one sessions each one hour in length; one a month for 5 months.
Coaching Focus: Relationship Non-Negotiable’s Relationship Growth & Values Connection & Communication Healthy Boundaries & Needs Tangible Future Together Healthy Financial Accountabilities Developing Strong Commitments Developing Harmony in all Areas
Your 6th Coaching Session takes place during your retreat experience.
The Retreat takes place in JULY 2019 at Tulum, Mexico.
5 Night Stay - Ocean Front King Cabana. All Meals Included. Two all inclusive excursions. Shuttle Service and Resort Fees & Taxes.
Coaching Focus: All Women's Workshop All Men's Workshop Couples Workshops One-on-one Sessions
Learn to set boundaries and non-negotiables for your relationship. Go from laptops open until midnight to connection time with phones on airplane mode. Start putting your relationship first instead of work and money.
Learn how to give 100% of your 50% to the relationship by first giving to yourself. Imagine both of you stepping into what's possible for you individually and then making decisions together for your future. Soon you'll be asking yourselves, "Where can we grow next?"
Finally start setting goals together, mapping out your vision together and discussing your values and expectations as a couple. Learn to understand each other on an intimate level and have the ability to speak each others visions and truths as if they were our own.