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Today we talk about the concept of whether the egg or the chicken came first in relation to self-confidence. We talk about the self-confidence dilemma that we all experience when we ask ourselves: Do I have to have experience to create confidence or do I have to have confidence to create experience?
Key Take Aways
- If you’re a growth minded person, you’re constantly going to be in the unknown
- Effective leaders are able to get themselves into states that allow them to get work done.
- When you’re not confident – where does your mind go?
- Fear doesn’t go away but your confidence becomes louder than your fear
- Mentorship helps with confidence and clarity
- Be mindful of the labels you are putting on your experiences
- Self-confidence is a daily practice
- Confidence is a muscle
- Don’t ever say something to yourself that you wouldn’t say to someone else
- Limiting language creates a limited reality
Quotes
- “If you want more confidence, you just have to be more committed.”
– Dr. Guadagnoli on Episode 18
Time Stamped Show Notes
- (02:12) Amanda explains the chicken or the egg concept
- (05:44) James talks about how his confidence was tested recently
- (08:35) Amanda talks about their UNSHAKEABLE event last weekend
- (11:03) James begins to talk about the first pillar: focus
- (13:03) Amanda talks about intention vs expectation
- (14:11) James talks about a give vs take mindset
- (15:01) Amanda cont’d
- (17:10) James talks about how we attack our identities
- (17:36) Amanda on the second pillar: accountability
- (18:56) James on the importance of external accountability
- (23:40) Amanda explains the third pillar: honesty and vulnerability
- (27:56) James talks about fear and other negative emotions
- (29:33) Amanda explains the fourth pillar: mentorship
- (33:03) James talks about how we can interpret experiences in a helpful or unhelpful way
- (34:25) Amanda explains the fifth pillar: practice & mindfulness
- (37:52) James explains how confidence is a muscle
- (39:27) Amanda cont’d
- (41:28) Amanda on 7 self-confidence takeaways they learned through planning Unshakeable
- (41:48) James & Amanda discuss negative self Talk
- (47:18) James & Amanda discuss focusing on impact vs numbers
- (51:26) Amanda talks about being experience driven
- (51:32) Show up regardless, no matter what
- (53:56) Talking about our feelings with other people
- (57:07) What having a WHY does for you
- (1:00:11) JOYRide – why, how, what and when?
Links Mentioned
Use episode 028 to help you with finding your motivation strategy: bethatonepercent.com/028download
Free masterclass to help you turn disempowering beliefs into empowering ones: bethatonepercent.com/masterclass
August 4-5, 2018 | Las Vegas, NV
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